From my personal experience and research i made by briefly interviewing friends, matured family members, and some acquaintances in the internet i came to learn how a picture can be the glue that fix a broken relationship.
This i will love to share. And how it works like a charm for me, the procedures, and perherps afterwards feelings.
This may also work to strenghten a weak relationship, nerve-wraking the procedures seem but the close bond you enjoyed together including all the memories you shared and how you so wanted it again because of your restless heart is worth the risk it entails.
Why Relationship Breaks?
Sadly many relationship break in their prime and it often comes suddenly when you least expected it would happen, as weired as it sound though it's just natural for things to turn that way, not just relationship, because the power to control what happens in the next second of uncertainty is beyond our reach.
When it comes to relationship even the very best suddenly get broken, maybe it's your fault or that of the next person involved in the relationship, or it could be someone else. It could also be a slight mistake or worse, unintentional act or your best of intention was misunderstood to mean otherwise.
Me and my cousin grew up not knowing each other until we were teenagers, we first met in a our uncle's marriage ceremony. We both proded our parents until we were convinced they revealed the reason why they decided to hide our relationship, we realised that it was a mere personality differences and distance. We never let that grow into us but started the best of relationship. We were sticking closer to each other more than we did with our siblings.
But suddenly, it came like a rocket, everything just changed, i never saw it coming. All i heard her say was "I wish i never met you" and boom! She walks away and our relationship went wilderness apart. It's broken.
How A Picture Can Fix Such a Broken Relationship
I tried to contact her after but all attempt failed, i was only pouring fuel to already ablazed building. She wont answer my calls or reply my sms, and she blocked me on facebook.
What was even the issue? Thanks to my meditation i realised that it was a little misunderstanding but she read to much meaning into it. My fault though.
I seek advice from many people including friends and mature family members, and few online acquaintances.
At the end, a picture without word or caption became the perfect glue that fixed our broken relationship.
But How?
I made a thorough search into our genealogy, i learned that our grandmother used scars in the flesh in such situation but not how, but she was often successful as i heard.
Then i created new facebook account, and sent her a picture we took together close to a hill in the early part of our friendship. I wasn't sure it would work, but it did.
She replied 2 days letter: "We need to talk, say the time and venue." I choosed a neutral ground.
In the meeting she was the one doing the apology because the picture touched her heart.
The summarising point is—When a strong relationship breaks, try to allow time to pass before you make a move towards winning back the lost heart. Simple things like visual aids(pictures in particular) that have the ability to recount momories can make great and lasting impression. Your goal is to impress not the person but their broken heart. Apply the glue and watch them mending.
In my case it was a relative, in your case it could be friends, lovers or marriage mate. No matter who is involved the glue is strong enough to fix it unless it ain't broken.
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